Compared to what I am used to, the layout of graveyards here- not unlike Turkish summer homes- seems rather disorganized and crowded, the plots too close together. There is very little in the way of landscaping and Nature is generally left to overtake everything and this, I suppose, is fitting.
It was, however, a gentle quiet moment, wandering down the wide lan es, the cypress and pine trees towering above and beyond them, the slopes of the legendary Mount Sipylus.
es, the cypress and pine trees towering above and beyond them, the slopes of the legendary Mount Sipylus.  
I have always enjoyed cemeteries and the contemplation they naturally produce. All the people that have lived before me, people I had never a chance to meet. Most were doubtless kind and simple people, a few probably were not so pleasant, perhaps. My mind then turned to all the people that will come after me, people again I will have no opportunity to meet.
Our time here is so short. I suppose, of course, we must feel lucky to have been given any time at all. And if the dead could speak, I am certain they would say,
"Don't waste a second. Live your life well. It will be gone before you know it."
The Turks, unlike the Victorians do not go in much for grandiose inscriptions on the headstones I noticed. No desperate, grasping individuality amongst the gravestones, no pathetic statues of weeping angels or ornately carved granite mausoleums. For the Turks, only the names and dates of birth and a hyphen to signify an entire lost life. The rest is left to the memories of the relatives and the imagination of the strangers.
 
 
 
"Don't waste a second. Live your life well. It will be gone before you know it."
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"Don't forget: you were born to love and be loved. Why you are fighting instead?" would dead advice us:)
footnote- Great article, great thoughts, Joe. Merci bien//
"Don't waste a second. Live your life well. It will be gone before you know it."
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Very true observations !